11 Best Realistic Dildos for a True-to-Life Experience

Like any sex toy, realistic dildos require some regular cleaning and maintenance. In general, you should always check manufacturer-recommended cleaning instructions. These manufacturers may even offer cleaners specifically designed for your new toy. If you’re not a fan of strap-on harnesses or you want to have a more intimate lovemaking session with your lover, strapless dildos are essential for your sex toy collection. These innovative dildos typically have a sleek design with a lifelike appearance. Featuring a shaft on one end and a bulb on the other, this variation of the dildo toy is meant to be for lesbian couples.

These selections check all the boxes needed to assure you will experience the most realistic feeling dildo on the market right now. But studies on the use of sex toys have found that they can aid sexual relationships between committed couples. In relationships marked by open communication, sex toys may enhance sexual experiences and intimacy. Because of their flexibility , silicone toys tend to adapt to your body a little more than harder toys.

You can have short Glass Dildo, thick dildos, and very long skinny dildos. Although in the case of borosilicate glass, be careful of sudden temperature shock as that can cause the toy to break and crack. Gradual temperature changes are your friend with glass toys. Warm, soapy water is usually more than enough to disinfect and clean a dildo. If your dildo has lots of texture or grooves, then it helps to have a dedicated ‘dildo toothbrush’ to get in all the nooks and crannies on the surface of the toy.

Sure, some women might be size queens and want a dildo that’s much bigger than any real penis could be. But there are also plenty of women that also like smaller toys – either the size of their partner, or something a bit smaller to get warmed up. We find this method of squirting a lot easier from a practical point of view, as the tubed ejaculating dildos can often get in the way. You also can’t use a suction cup with those style squirting dildos, which we think is a huge pro of this design. As with all Vixen toys, the Peacemaker is the best option if you want a realistic looking strapless strapon. Made with the high quality VixSkin silicone and available in three flesh tone colors for added realism.

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sexologist and intimacy/relationship/sex coach. Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and a board member of both PARK Reproductive Justice NOW! And the Diverse Sexualities and Research Education Institute, Stewart is passionate about bringing together diverse voices in order to spread sexual education and liberation. This toy has a near-perfect online rating, with one promising review stating, “If you’re new to glass this one is a great one to start with.” Stewart recommends double-sided dildos like this one in particular, suggesting, “You and your partner can experiment with different positions where both of you are being penetrated.”